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You just lost 3/4 of your time by hanging on to a relationship that doesn’t work!
Additionally, if you do happen to meet the right person in that 480 hours while you’re in a relationship, you may not be able to pursue him / her!!
In this case, the problem is “You’d like to find a husband or wife”, so the first thing to consider is whether you actually want to be married.
After all, if you have no desire to actually commit to anyone, no amount of searching will do you any good.
Additionally, I am male, so this will be from a male perspective (but it should be very applicable to women too since the underlying basis is about relationships in general).
Whenever you have a problem, it is always a good idea to consider what you want first.
Do you want an activity partner that you have sex with once in a while (this is not necessarily separate from the person you want to spend your life with)? Keep in mind that “being married” is just a label, like “dating”, or “girlfriend”.
” then you two are “married” according to that definition. If you definitely need a wedding, then a wedding would be part of your definition of a marriage. Imagine the following scenario: You excitedly asked the other person, “Will you marry me? Fill in the blank: Here are the qualities I need in a husband / wife: Like the definition of marriage above, this list will help you determine what you are looking for, so that you spend a minimum amount of time pursuing the wrong people.
It lets you determine quickly who to ask and what to ask.
Think about how many people you meet through the course of a year or two.
By devoting most of your time to a relatively hopeless relationship, your deprive yourself of the chance of exploring other relationships that might give you what you want!